A man takes his girl friend to view the film. "For you to learn how to be submissive and obedient", he suggests. At the end, the couple concludes: "50 Shades of Grey" is a lesson on how NOT to be a submissive woman, how NOT to be a dominant man. Feminist Hollywood and political correctness makes sure that Anastasia Steele is always in control, never really dominated. 
See: 50 Shades of Grey: Politically Correct Boredom. Privileged females make fuzz about obedience and some pain, unaware that (mostly) male soldiers in boot camp and war must blindly obey, have walk with blistered feet, kill and get killed without safe words nor right to back out. 
Christian Grey is the man of every girl’s wet dreams: handsome, intelligent, cultured, filthy rich and successful, and, always in control (before he met Anastasia). Thousands of female fans would give everything to be his girlfriend or fling and get flown around in the Billionaire’s helicopter.
Many women would not be as resistant as our heroine, Anastasia. Rather, some would certainly yield and sign the slavery contract. If a woman does not agree, a empowered alpha male could simply move on to the next woman candidate. He could sweeten the deal, offering reward for thrashings. But with his Rock star popularity, he would not need to offer money.
Grey could afford to hire 10 girls at SeekingArrangement.com [Cosmo]   , offer a US$ 10,000 to US$ 20,000 monthly stipend to each and every girl that signs his contract. Or he could make a few "indecent proposals" for a Million for a one month fling.
- One out of 3 college students in Berlin would consider doing prostitution, stripping, sex work (Brandenburg Academy of Science)
Instead of being manly, alpha male Christian Grey loses his dominance to a constantly resisting Anastasia. Instead of dumping her for not signing his contract, he constantly negotiates. He spanks her only after she consents. This culminated in in "Don’t touch me" and "Don’t ever do this again".
Before, Christian could not touch Anastasia Steele when she was drunk. He asked for consent at every moment, gave her two safe words and repeatedly reminded her that she could stop at any moment.